Frequently asked questions
What is bedakhli?
A common term for disowning a son or daughter, usually through a public notice in newspapers saying the parents have severed ties and will not be responsible for the child's acts or debts. It is also used loosely for evicting someone from property.
Does a bedakhli notice take away my child's right to inherit?
No. A notice alone does not end inheritance rights. To exclude a child from self-acquired property, you need a valid will or must transfer the property during your lifetime.
Is a bedakhli notice legally valid?
It is a lawful public declaration, but it is not a legal instrument. Courts treat it as evidence of the parents' intention, not as something that changes rights by itself.
Can I disown my son from ancestral property?
Not from his own share. In genuine Hindu coparcenary property, sons and daughters hold a share by birth. You can will away only your own interest.
Is property I inherited from my father ancestral?
Usually not. Under Supreme Court rulings, property a son inherits from his father under the Hindu Succession Act after 1956 is his separate property, so his children do not get a share by birth.
Can I disown my daughter after the 2005 amendment?
The same rules apply as for a son. A daughter is a coparcener by birth and a legal heir; a notice does not change that. A will controls self-acquired property.
Do I need a will if I publish a bedakhli notice?
Yes, if you want to keep property from the child. Without a will, the child inherits as a legal heir despite the notice.
Should my will mention the child I am excluding?
It is not required, but naming the child and stating that the omission is deliberate makes the will harder to challenge.
Can a Muslim parent disinherit a child by will?
Not fully. A Muslim will can pass at most a third of the estate to non-heirs, and gifts by will to heirs need the other heirs to agree. Lifetime gifts follow separate rules.
Can I make my adult son leave my house?
Yes, through the senior citizens tribunal if you are a senior citizen and eviction is necessary for your protection, or through a civil suit for possession if the house is yours. A notice alone is not enough.
Does my son have a right to live in my self-acquired house?
No. The Delhi High Court held in 2016 that a son has no legal right to live in his parents' self-acquired house and stays only with their permission.
Can the senior citizens tribunal order eviction?
Yes, where necessary to protect the senior citizen. The Supreme Court has said it is discretionary and needs reasons, and that milder orders should be considered first.
What is Delhi's procedure for evicting a son?
Under Delhi's rules, a senior citizen can apply to the Deputy Commissioner or District Magistrate for eviction of a son, daughter or legal heir for non-maintenance and ill-treatment, with an appeal to the Divisional Commissioner.
Can my daughter-in-law be evicted along with my son?
Possibly, but she has a right of residence in the shared household under the domestic violence law. Courts balance her right with yours and may direct alternative accommodation.
Can I take back a house I gifted to my son?
Yes, where the gift carried a condition that he would look after you and he did not; section 23 of the Senior Citizens Act lets the tribunal declare it void. Otherwise revocation is possible only on limited grounds.
What did the Supreme Court decide in Urmila Dixit?
In January 2025 it cancelled a gift deed where the son had promised to maintain his mother and failed, holding that the Senior Citizens Act must be read in a beneficial way.
Am I liable for my son's loans after disowning him?
You are not liable for an adult child's debts in any case, unless you signed as guarantor or co-borrower or pledged your property. The notice records your stand publicly.
Can recovery agents call me about my son's loan?
RBI rules prohibit harassing family members. Complain to the lender and then to the RBI Ombudsman.
Am I responsible for my son's criminal case?
No, unless you took part in or helped with the offence. Criminal liability is personal.
Can I disown a minor child?
No. Parents must maintain minor children by law, and a notice does not change that.
Does my disowned child still have to maintain me?
Yes. Adult children remain liable to maintain parents who cannot maintain themselves, under the Senior Citizens Act and section 144 of the BNSS.
How much maintenance can the tribunal order?
Up to Rs 10,000 a month under the Senior Citizens Act. Claims under section 144 of the BNSS have no fixed cap.
What should a bedakhli notice say?
The parents' and child's names and addresses, a statement of disownment from movable and immovable property, and a disclaimer of responsibility for the child's acts and liabilities.
Can I say my son is a thief or addict in the notice?
Avoid it. Allegations of crimes can lead to a defamation case. Neutral words such as "disobedient" or "beyond our control" are safer.
Which newspapers should I use?
Typically an English daily plus a Hindi or regional one, using the editions circulating where the child lives and where any property is.
Do I need an affidavit as well?
It is optional but useful: a sworn, dated record of your decision that can be produced before a tribunal or court.
How long does publication take?
Usually two to four days from booking, depending on the newspaper's schedule.
Can I withdraw a bedakhli notice?
Yes. Publish a withdrawal in the same newspapers and revise any will that excluded the child.
Does the notice affect my grandchildren?
Not their birth-right share in coparcenary property. They can be named in your will for your separate property.
Do adopted children inherit?
Yes. A validly adopted child has the same rights as a natural-born child from the date of adoption.
My daughter married against our wishes. Should we publish a notice?
You may decide what to do with your own property, but a notice must never be used to threaten an adult couple. Adults have a right to marry, and courts protect couples facing family pressure.
Can a disowned child challenge the will?
Yes, on grounds such as improper execution, lack of capacity or undue influence. A carefully made, witnessed and preferably registered will is hard to challenge.
Is probate still needed for wills in Mumbai, Kolkata and Chennai?
No longer as a rule: the 2025 Repealing and Amending Act dropped section 213, which had imposed it. Probate can still be obtained where useful.
Should I revoke a power of attorney given to my son?
Yes, if you have disowned him. Revoke it in writing and inform banks and the Sub-Registrar.
Can I lock my son out while he is away?
No. Forcible dispossession can lead to criminal complaints and a court ordering him back. Use the tribunal or a civil suit.
Is bedakhli the same as evicting a tenant?
No. Tenants are evicted under rent and property laws through courts or rent authorities, not by a newspaper notice.
Can Mara Vakil publish the notice for me?
Yes. Use the bedakhli notice order page to book drafting and newspaper publication. Mara Vakil acts as a platform; it is not a law firm.
Can I make my son leave if I am not yet a senior citizen?
The senior citizens tribunal is for parents aged 60 or above. Younger parents can file a civil suit for possession and injunction if the house is theirs.
Does registering the notice make it stronger?
There is no registration of a public notice. Its value comes from publication, the original newspaper copies and an accompanying affidavit.
Can my son use my name or documents after the notice?
He should not. Revoke any power of attorney, inform your bank in writing and report misuse to the police.
What is the difference between disownment and disinheritance?
Disownment is a social and public declaration; disinheritance is the legal exclusion from property, achieved through a will or lifetime transfers.
Can both parents publish one notice?
Yes. Notices are usually issued jointly by both parents, or by the surviving parent.
Is there a helpline for elderly parents facing abuse?
Yes. Elderline, the national helpline for senior citizens, is on 14567. In an emergency, call 112.
Can I get free legal help for a tribunal application?
District legal services authorities provide free legal aid to senior citizens in many states and can help prepare the application.
Which documents should my family keep after I publish a notice?
The original newspaper copies, the affidavit, your will, title documents, any gift deed, and tribunal or court records, kept together with a trusted person.
Does a notice help if my son later challenges my will?
It helps show that your decision was considered and long-standing, but the will must still be validly made and witnessed.
Should we try mediation before publishing?
It is often worth trying. A neutral mediator can help settle money, residence and care issues, and the attempt itself counts in your favour later.
Can a notice be published in a regional language only?
Yes. There is no rule, but adding an English paper widens reach among banks and businesses.